Roxane Gay, in her book "Bad Feminist: Essays," shares her personal journey regarding feminism. Initially, she distanced herself from the movement due to a lack of understanding, perceiving it through negative stereotypes. She felt that being labeled a feminist meant being associated with anger and victimhood, which deterred her from embracing the identity.

Gay's reflections reveal the complexities of feminism and the misconceptions that surround it. By admitting her initial disavowal, she highlights the importance of education and understanding in forming a more accurate perception of feminism, breaking free from the stigma often attached to it.