The essence of true belonging lies in not giving oneself entirely to external causes or systems. Striking a balance is crucial; an overcommitment to outside affiliations can stem from a fear of engaging with our own lives. Instead of losing ourselves in these external attachments, we should learn to nurture our own identities and experiences.

John O'Donohue emphasizes that when we awaken our souls, we discover that our true home is within ourselves. In this space, our deepest longings and desires feel secure and accepted. This inner belonging allows us to engage more authentically with the world while still retaining a sense of personal identity and purpose.