对于一些人来说，出柜的恐惧是如此之大，他们可以继续过着不真实的生活。但到了某个时刻，疼痛就会变得难以忍受。对我来说，再过一天没有活出真实的自我，似乎是一次浪费的机会，一次浪费的生命。
(For some, the fear of coming out is so great, they can continue to live an inauthentic life. But at a certain point, the pain becomes too much to bear. For me, having one more day pass by where I wasn't living my true self seemed like such a wasted opportunity, such a wasted life.)