你可以实现一件事，但正因为如此，你必须适应或失去其他东西。例如，如果你最终陷入一段关系，你有时不得不失去亲密的友谊，或者你必须搬到某个地方……对我来说，这会产生一种忧郁感，我认为这种感觉存在于大多数人的生活中。
(You can achieve one thing, but because of that, you have to adapt or lose something else. If you end up in a relationship, you sometimes have to lose the closeness of your friendships, for example, or you have to move away somewhere... For me, that creates the sense of melancholy which I think exists in most people's lives.)