But the question is, how can my head be filled with such sad memories and yet I am still able to make people laugh? It's not always easy, but the secret is to compartmentalize the various sections of your brain. I can put aside the sad memories when I have to, but they're always lurking around somewhere, and sometimes they pop up when I least expect it. The more you practice, the easier it becomes. But to allow the joy to come front and center in your life, you also have to feel your emotions, even the sad ones. You have to mourn, let the tears pour out. If you bottle the sadness in, the joy gets bottled right along with it.
( Ruth Westheimer )
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