It is a matter of no small importance that one be able to explain and order the events in our lives into some coherent and predictable pattern. To name something, to locate its place in a causal sequence, is to begin to experience it as under our control.
No longer, then, is our internal experience or behavior frightening, alien or out of control; instead, we behave {or have a particular inner experience} because of something we can name or identify. The "because" offers one mastery {or a sense of mastery that phenomenologically is tantamount to mastery}. I believe that the sense of potency that flows from understanding occurs even in the matter of our basic existential situation: each of us feels less futile, less helpless, and less alone, even when, ironically, what we come to understand is the fact that each of us is basically helpless and alone in the face of cosmic indifference.
No longer, then, is our internal experience or behavior frightening, alien or out of control; instead, we behave {or have a particular inner experience} because of something we can name or identify. The "because" offers one mastery {or a sense of mastery that phenomenologically is tantamount to mastery}. I believe that the sense of potency that flows from understanding occurs even in the matter of our basic existential situation: each of us feels less futile, less helpless, and less alone, even when, ironically, what we come to understand is the fact that each of us is basically helpless and alone in the face of cosmic indifference.
( Irvin D. Yalom )
[ Existential Psychotherapy ]
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