Overindulgence" is a deprivation of constructive attention, a refusal to teach social/life skills, a refusal to teach self-regulation in social situations, a refusal to teach how to distinguish between wants and needs. Desires are indulged at the place where needs are starved. - Sarah Schulman - Conflict Is Not Abuse: Overstating Harm, Community Responsibility, and the Duty of Repair - QuotesSweet