Roxane Gay, in her book "Bad Feminist," explores the complex nature of privilege and how it intersects with hardship. She suggests that when people point out privilege, it often feels like an attack, implying that those accused have an easier path in life. This sentiment can foster resentment, as many struggle with their own challenges.

Gay's insight highlights how accusations of privilege can oversimplify individual experiences. While acknowledging privilege is important, it's essential to recognize that everyone faces difficulties, and this can lead to a defensive response rather than productive conversation about inequality.