In "Nightwoods" by Charles Frazier, the characters have navigated the complexities of marriage in a way that minimizes conflict and harm. They have developed practical strategies that allow them to coexist with reduced emotional turmoil, indicating their desire for a stable relationship despite challenges.

The husbands residing two hours away suggests a physical and perhaps emotional distance that enables a form of coexistence. This arrangement highlights their attempt to manage the institution of marriage while striving for personal peace and harmony, reflecting the broader struggles individuals face in relationships.