And still, when I am with my family, when we become that island unto ourselves, I allow myself to be a part of them. I am trying to forgive and make up for lost time, to close the distances I put between us even though it was necessary, for a time, for me to be apart from them. These are the people who know not all of me but know enough, know what matters most. They continue to love me so hard and I love them hard in return.
In her memoir "Hunger," Roxane Gay reflects on the deep connection she feels with her family, describing them as an island where she can truly belong. She acknowledges the time spent apart and the emotional barriers that were necessary for her, but emphasizes her desire to forgive and mend those gaps. Gay understands that these familial bonds are vital and that her loved ones possess an intimate understanding of her, shaped by shared experiences and unconditional love.
Despite the complexities of her personal journey, Gay conveys a powerful message about the strength of familial love. She highlights the importance of being present and nurturing those relationships that truly matter. This dedication to reconnecting reflects her commitment to not only bridging the distance she created but also celebrating the profound love that exists within her family, reminding us that love persists even through challenges.
