In "A Memory of Light" by Robert Jordan, the character reflects on the treatment he receives, comparing even the dead woman's behavior to that of Nynaeve. This leads him to wonder about the influences and lessons that may have taught them to interact in such a manner. The underlying question reveals his confusion and frustration with the dynamics in his relationships.

He contemplates the idea of secret teachings that might explain the way women respond to him. This notion suggests a deeper exploration of gender dynamics and power plays within the narrative, emphasizing how personal interactions are shaped by unseen forces or societal norms that may not be immediately apparent.