But for each person who is made happy by love, there will be many for whom it turns out to be a cause of regret. That is because it can be so fleeting; one moment it may take our breath away, the next it may leave us bereft. When it does that, love can be like a haunting, staying with us for year after year; we know that it is gone, but somehow we persuade ourselves that it is still there... Nobody would choose to be in love like that, to hold on so strongly to something that was no longer there.
by Alexander McCall Smith
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Love is often celebrated for its capacity to bring joy and fulfillment to people's lives. However, it can also lead to deep sorrow and longing when it fades. The contrast between the exhilaration of romantic moments and the pain of their absence can create lasting emotional scars, leading some to hold on to memories of love that no longer exists. This bittersweet nature of love can turn into a haunting experience, dominating one’s thoughts and feelings for years, even as the actual connection has vanished.

Many find themselves caught in a cycle of nostalgia, yearning for a love that has left them feeling empty. This phenomenon underscores the complex nature of love, where its ability to inspire intense happiness is often accompanied by the potential for regret and heartache. While love can be enriching, the aftermath of its loss can lead individuals to cling to memories, making it difficult to fully let go and move forward. Ultimately, love, while beautiful, carries the weight of both joy and grief.

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