didn't thankdidn't wave goodbyedidn't flutter the air with kissesa mound of gifts unwrappedbed unmadeno appetitealways elsewherethough it was raining elsewherethough strangers peopled the streetsthough we at home slaved andbaked and wept andhung ornamentsand perfumed the darkdid he marveldid he thankwas he grateful did he knowwas he humanwas he therealways elsewhere:didn't thankdidn't kisstoothbrush stiffened with unusepuppy whining in the hallcar battery deadsweaters unravele
The poem explores the feelings of neglect and absence in a relationship, highlighting the paradox of physical presence yet emotional unavailability. The speaker reflects on various instances of care and effort—like baking, decorating, and expressing love—yet feels unacknowledged and unappreciated. The imagery evokes a sense of sadness, with unwrapped gifts and a bed left unmade, symbolizing the lack of connection. The recurring questions about gratitude and humanity emphasize an emotional detachment, suggesting that the loved one exists in a separate realm, always "elsewhere." Despite the efforts made by the speaker, the other person remains indifferent, leaving an air of longing for recognition and true presence. Even mundane elements like a stiff toothbrush and a whining puppy paint a vivid picture of routine disrupted by this deeper emotional rift.
