Generous listening is powered by curiosity, a virtue we can invite and nurture in ourselves to render it instinctive. It involves a kind of vulnerability-a willingness to be surprised, to let go of assumptions and take in ambiguity. The listener wants to understand the humanity behind the words of the other, and patiently summons one's own best self and one's own best words and questions.
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Generous listening is fundamentally rooted in curiosity, which is a quality we can cultivate within ourselves. This practice requires a certain vulnerability, as it involves being open to new ideas and experiences without holding onto preconceived notions. By embracing uncertainty, listeners create space to understand the deeper human emotions and intentions behind the speaker's words.
The act of generous listening encourages individuals to engage with their highest selves, which involves asking thoughtful questions and choosing their words carefully. This deeper connection not only enhances communication but also fosters a richer understanding of one another’s humanity, making it an essential skill for meaningful interactions.
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