Grief causes you to leave yourself. You step outside your narrow little pelt. And you can't feel grief unless you've had love before it – grief is the final outcome of love, because it's love lost. You do understand; I know you do. But you just don't want to think about it. It's the cycle of love completed: to love, to lose, to feel grief, to leave, and then to love again. Jason, grief is awareness that you will have to be alone, and there is nothing beyond that because being alone is the ultimate final destiny of each individual living creature. That's what death is, the great loneliness.
by Philip K. Dick
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Grief is an experience that takes you out of your familiar self, forcing a confrontation with emotions that emerge after love has been lost. It highlights the deep connections formed through love, which is what makes the ensuing grief so profound. This cycle illustrates the journey of loving, losing, and grieving, ultimately leading one to a greater understanding of their own vulnerabilities and the inevitable loneliness that accompanies existence.

The poignant realization is that while love enriches our lives, it also sets the stage for grief once it is lost. This cycle implies that to truly understand grief, one must first embrace love, acknowledging that solitude is a significant part of life. The notion of death as the "great loneliness" emphasizes the solitude that awaits everyone, reminding us of the importance of love even in the face of ultimate loss.

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