In this excerpt from "Festive in Death" by J.D. Robb, the character reflects on the complexities of marriage. She acknowledges that relationships come with challenges, including difficult times that can be longer than expected. The choices made during these times are crucial, as they can lead to either mending the relationship or causing further harm.

The discussion emphasizes the importance of commitment in marriage. Instead of seeking short-term relief through actions that could damage the bond with a partner, the focus should be on working through difficulties together. The character highlights that while one may feel tempted to take an easier path, it ultimately leads to greater suffering for both partners involved.