The character experiences a profound loss of innocence or ideals that once defined him. This realization reveals his humanity, suggesting he has come to terms with his vulnerabilities. However, there's a sense of doubt: is this newfound awareness genuine, or is he merely putting on an act to appear modern and relatable? This tension highlights the complexities of understanding one another.

The narrator reflects on the implications of men becoming aware of their own humanity. Rather than fostering connection, this knowledge has led to discomfort and emotional distance. The irony lies in men becoming more elusive as they grapple with their own feelings, making them harder to understand. Atwood's exploration raises questions about societal expectations and the challenges of vulnerability in relationships.