He saw all those private aspects of me - and I mean not just sexual private parts, but my darker side, my meanness, my pettiness, my self-loathing - all the things I kept hidden. So that with him I was completely naked, and when I was feeling the most vulnerable - when the wrong word would have sent me flying out the door forever - he always said exactly the right thing at the right moment. He didn't allow me to cover myself up. He would grab my hands, look me straight in the eye and tell me something new about why he loved me.
The speaker reflects on a deep emotional connection with someone who truly understands and sees all their hidden flaws and vulnerabilities. This bond goes beyond physical intimacy, encompassing their darker traits, insecurities, and the aspects of themselves they would normally keep concealed. The presence of this person allows the speaker to feel exposed and vulnerable, yet safe within that exposure, illustrating a profound level of trust and acceptance.
In moments of fragility, where the speaker could easily retreat in fear, the individual consistently offers affirmations of love and understanding. By refusing to let the speaker hide away their true self, this person brings comfort and reassurance. Through sincere communication, he helps the speaker embrace their complexity, ensuring that they feel valued for who they truly are rather than just surface-level attributes.
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