In "The Wine Lover's Daughter: A Memoir," Anne Fadiman explores the life of her father, who was always engaged in work and activities, often to an excessive degree. His relentless busyness became a defining characteristic, impacting his relationships and priorities. This incessant drive enabled him to enjoy luxuries like fine wine, reflecting a contrast between his professional ambitions and personal life.

The memoir delves into the complexities of their father-daughter relationship, illustrating how his obsession with being busy affected their connection. Despite the affluence and experiences that came from his work ethic, Fadiman reveals the toll it took on their family dynamics and her longing for deeper bonds amidst his chaos.