Mma Ramotswe reflects on the nature of some men's insecurities, suggesting that those who feel inadequate internally often attempt to assert dominance over women. This behavior stems from a lack of self-worth, prompting them to diminish others to feel more significant. Such men are described as "small" in a metaphorical sense.

In contrast, Mma Ramotswe believes that men who possess true confidence and strength do not resort to belittling others. Their sense of self does not hinge on the oppression of women. This insight highlights the importance of internal confidence and genuine respect in relationships.