Hugging is quite an intimate contact. Considering the studies done on proxemics we looked at earlier; when you get within two feet of another person you are inside their intimate space. There are some people who truly do not want you in their 'bubble' unless you are close friends or they've given you permission. Assuming familiarity incorrectly can destroy rapport, make a bad impression, and risk everything you have done well up to then.
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Hugging is a very personal act that involves close physical proximity, which is significant when considering the principles of proxemics. When someone enters within two feet of another person, they are encroaching on their intimate space. Many individuals prefer to maintain this space and are only comfortable letting certain people, such as close friends, into their personal bubble. Misjudging the level of familiarity can have detrimental effects on relationships, leading to misunderstandings or negative impressions.

This idea highlights the importance of being mindful of how close we stand to others and respecting their boundaries. If someone feels their personal space is violated, it can damage the rapport that has been built, potentially undoing any positive interactions. Understanding and navigating these non-verbal cues is essential for effective communication and fostering trust in relationships.

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