Roxane Gay, in her book "Bad Feminist: Essays," expresses regret over the systemic mistreatment of women throughout history. She highlights how society's failure to protect and value women has led them to endure abuse, sometimes viewing it as a necessary compromise for achieving fame or recognition. This reflects a troubling societal norm where suffering is trivialized.

Gay's statement confronts the deeper issues of misogyny and the pressures women face, emphasizing the need for change. She calls out the societal structures that condition women to accept harmful experiences for validation, underlining the urgent need for a cultural shift that prioritizes respect and equity for all women.