I'd tried to cope alone for far too long, and it hadn't done me any good at all. Sometimes you simply needed someone kind to sit with you while you dealt with things.
Gail Honeyman
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The quote from Gail Honeyman's book "Eleanor Oliphant Is Completely Fine" reflects the protagonist's realization about the importance of companionship in overcoming struggles. Having tried to face her difficulties in solitude, she acknowledges that this has not been beneficial for her. It speaks to the universal truth that, at times, everyone's challenges can feel overwhelming, and sharing those burdens with a supportive person can provide comfort and healing.

This insight emphasizes the need for human connection and kindness in difficult moments. It highlights that while isolation may feel like a way to cope, reaching out to someone who cares can make a significant difference in managing emotional turmoil. Hence, Eleanor's journey illustrates the impact of companionship and the strength found in vulnerability when dealing with life's challenges.

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Mummy's a bad person,' I said. 'Really bad. I know that, I've always known that. And I wondered … do you think I might be bad too? People inherit all sorts of things from their parents, don't they – varicose veins, heart disease. Can you inherit badness?
Gail Honeyman Eleanor Oliphant Is Completely Fine
Mummy's a bad person,' I said. 'Really bad. I know that, I've always known that. And I wondered … do you think I might be bad too? People inherit all sorts of things from their parents, don't they – varicose veins, heart disease. Can you inherit badness?
The world just went on, regardless of what happened. That's how it works.
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Well, there was a man that I took a bit of a liking to, a little crush, you might say, and I got slightly carried away, and then I realized that, actually, I'd been a bit silly. We weren't going to be together. And he – well, it turned out that he wasn't even right for me anyway. He wasn't the man I thought he was. I felt sad about that, and I felt extremely stupid for getting it all so wrong. That's all it was …
Gail Honeyman Eleanor Oliphant Is Completely Fine
Well, there was a man that I took a bit of a liking to, a little crush, you might say, and I got slightly carried away, and then I realized that, actually, I'd been a bit silly. We weren't going to be together. And he – well, it turned out that he wasn't even right for me anyway. He wasn't the man I thought he was. I felt sad about that, and I felt extremely stupid for getting it all so wrong. That's all it was …
Fire tests gold, and adversity tests the brave.
Gail Honeyman Eleanor Oliphant Is Completely Fine
Fire tests gold, and adversity tests the brave.
There are scars on my heart, just as thick, as disfiguring as those on my face.
Gail Honeyman Eleanor Oliphant Is Completely Fine
There are scars on my heart, just as thick, as disfiguring as those on my face.
If they liked you – and, I remembered, Raymond and I had agreed that we were pals now – then, it seemed, they were prepared to maintain contact, even if you were sad, or upset, or behaving in very challenging ways.
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