In Amy Tan's "Saving Fish from Drowning," the protagonist reflects on a learned behavior of suppressing emotions and adopting a passive stance towards life. This attitude arises from past experiences where expressing feelings seemed futile or impossible, leading to a mindset of indifference. By pushing down feelings, the character attempts to navigate life's complexities with a sense of detachment.

This approach highlights the struggle between vulnerability and self-protection. In choosing to "let things happen," the character reveals a deeper conflict, as this passive acceptance can prevent genuine engagement with life and relationships. Tan's exploration sheds light on the consequences of emotional suppression and the challenge of embracing one's true feelings amidst life’s uncertainties.