In her book "Bad Feminist: Essays," Roxane Gay explores her complex relationship with feminism and the concept of sisterhood. She expresses uncertainty regarding what sisterhood truly means and how it applies to her. This feeling creates a sense of unease within her, as it highlights her perceived shortcomings in living up to feminist ideals.

Gay’s reflections reveal a broader struggle many women face when identifying with feminist movements. Despite her doubts, the awareness of sisterhood's expectations serves as a reminder of societal pressures and the challenge of finding one's place within feminism while grappling with personal insecurities.