Mindy Kaling's book, "Is Everyone Hanging Out Without Me?" offers a humorous take on the art of giving honest feedback. She suggests a gentle yet clear approach to criticizing someone's choice in attire, using the phrase "I'm not crazy about that on you." This expression serves as a way to soften the blow, while effectively conveying her true feelings about the outfit, which she believes looks terrible.

Kaling emphasizes the importance of providing feedback that is both direct and considerate. She compares her approach to a cattle prod—essentially quick and painful, but necessary for the recipient's benefit. This candid style of communication underscores her belief that friends should be honest with one another, even when the truth is uncomfortable.