Ignoring his advice, I got up, walked over, gently rested my hands on two of their shoulders and said, "Ladies, I have to tell you how much you have impressed me. I just moved to Madison from Florida and left behind all my girlfriends. I have been sitting over there admiring your friendships. You remind me so much of my girlfriends back home and I had to come over and speak with you." And without missing a beat, I next asked, "Can I be your friend?" They were so impressed by my sincere request, they kindly opened their circle and invited me in.
In the passage, the narrator recounts a moment of courage and vulnerability. Despite being advised against it, they approach a group of women who seem friendly and are enjoying each other’s company. The narrator expresses admiration for their friendship, revealing a sense of nostalgia for their own connections left behind in Florida. This sincere compliment and shared experience pave the way for a new friendship.
The narrator's proactive approach culminates in a heartfelt request to join the women’s group, which exemplifies the power of genuine connection. Their openness and willingness to befriend strangers resonate with the women, leading to a warm invitation. This shows that taking the initiative to foster relationships can lead to meaningful interactions and new friendships, illustrating a core theme in "The Art of Action" by Susan C. Young.
