David Rakoff suggests that friendship and connection are essential elements of a fulfilling life. He emphasizes the importance of forgiveness in building and maintaining relationships, acknowledging that humans naturally seek contact with one another. This desire for closeness often outweighs the risks and potential for hurt that can arise from these interactions.

Rakoff reflects on the paradox of human connection, where the longing for intimacy can lead us to face challenges and emotional turmoil. Even though these connections can sometimes lead to pain, he argues that the experience of relationships is more rewarding than the loneliness of isolation. Ultimately, his insights encourage us to embrace both the joys and risks of forming bonds with others.