We think hatred is a weapon against those who hurt us, but hatred is a curved knife. And the damage we do to others, we also do to ourselves.
Mitch Albom The Five People You Meet...
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The quote by Mitch Albom in "The Five People You Meet in Heaven" reflects on the destructive nature of hatred. It suggests that while we may believe that hatred serves as a means to seek revenge or justice against those who have caused us pain, it actually harms us more than anyone else. The imagery of a "curved knife" illustrates how our negative emotions can backfire, leading to self-inflicted wounds.

This perspective encourages individuals to reconsider their approach to conflict and emotional pain. Instead of allowing hatred to consume us, it invites us to recognize that holding onto such feelings only perpetuates a cycle of suffering. Ultimately, it serves as a reminder that healing and forgiveness can be far more powerful than anger and resentment.

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