In her book "The Art of Connection," Susan C. Young reflects on the instinct to challenge opposing viewpoints. She acknowledges the strong urge to persuade someone to see things from her perspective when faced with conflicting opinions. However, she questions the worth of such efforts, suggesting that striving to prove someone wrong may not lead to productive outcomes.

Young emphasizes that confrontation is unlikely to foster understanding or resolution. Instead of trying to change a person's beliefs, it is more beneficial to approach disagreements with an open mind, allowing for a more harmonious interaction. This perspective encourages individuals to recognize the importance of maintaining relationships over winning arguments.