Life is very different when you have a good friend. I've seen people without special friends, close friends. Other men, especially. For some reason men don't often make and keep friends. This is a real tragedy, I think, because in a way, without a tight male friend, you never really are able to see yourself.
The author reflects on the significance of having good friends, particularly emphasizing the impact of close male friendships. She notes that many men struggle to form and maintain deep connections with friends, which she believes is a tragedy. This lack of special friendships can lead to an incomplete understanding of oneself.
Walker suggests that strong ties with friends are crucial for personal growth and self-awareness. Without a close friend, especially among men, individuals might miss out on valuable perspectives and insights that come from sharing life experiences and emotions.