The author reflects on the significance of having good friends, particularly emphasizing the impact of close male friendships. She notes that many men struggle to form and maintain deep connections with friends, which she believes is a tragedy. This lack of special friendships can lead to an incomplete understanding of oneself.
Walker suggests that strong ties with friends are crucial for personal growth and self-awareness. Without a close friend, especially among men, individuals might miss out on valuable perspectives and insights that come from sharing life experiences and emotions.