Machiavelli asks whether it be better to be loved than feared or feared than loved? He answers that one should wish to be both, but, because it is difficult to unite them in one person, it is much safer to be feared than loved, when, of the two, either must be dispensed with.
Machiavelli poses the question of whether it is preferable for a ruler to be loved or feared by their subjects. He recognizes the ideal scenario would be to embody both qualities, but acknowledges that achieving this balance is challenging. Instead, he argues that when a choice must be made, it is more prudent for a ruler to be feared rather than loved, as fear provides a more reliable form of control.
This perspective highlights the complexities of leadership and power dynamics. According to Machiavelli, while being loved can attract loyalty, the risks associated with love's volatility make fear a safer foundation for maintaining authority and order within a state.