In "Hunger: A Memoir of (My) Body," Roxane Gay reflects on her family's persistent worries regarding her weight and health. Although they have good intentions, their constant reminders make her feel like a failure when it comes to managing her own body. This pressure highlights the emotional struggles associated with her relationship with food and body image.

Gay's experience reveals how familial concern can often be perceived as nagging, exacerbating feelings of inadequacy rather than offering genuine support. This dynamic illustrates the complexities of dealing with societal and personal expectations about one's physical appearance and health, making her memoir a profound exploration of self-acceptance and vulnerability.