Now I know a lot of us would rather skip over whatever happened back in the day, because it's painful or obsolete {as some would say}, because there's nothing to do to change it, other than to let it go or get over it. But if we do that, we risk losing our knowledge of what really makes us happy: the pure essence of joy that we knew as children. And if we don't take the time to reclaim the dreams that we may have left back there in the thorny and golden past, we will be poorer for it.
Many people tend to avoid revisiting past experiences, viewing them as painful or irrelevant. This inclination to ignore the past stems from a desire to move forward without the burden of past mistakes. However, disregarding our history can lead us to forget what truly brings us joy and fulfillment, which we often knew as children. Our past holds vital insights into our happiness that we should not overlook.
Furthermore, embracing our past, including dreams and aspirations, is essential to enrich our lives. Chris Gardner emphasizes the importance of reconnecting with those desires and experiences, as they contribute to our understanding of happiness. By acknowledging and reclaiming our past, we not only honor our journey but also enhance our present and future. Ignoring these elements may leave us with a diminished sense of self and purpose.