Of course she teased the girls, but it was not the same as having a grown man to work on-she had often felt like pinching Bob for being so stolid. July was no better-in fact, he and Bob were cut from the same mold, a strong but unimaginative mold.
In "Lonesome Dove," the protagonist expresses her frustration about the men around her, highlighting a sense of dissatisfaction with their personalities. She playfully teases the girls, but feels a lack of stimulation when it comes to the adult male figures in her life, particularly Bob. His solid but uncreative nature leaves her yearning for something more dynamic.
July, like Bob, embodies a similar type of strength yet lacks imagination, which contributes to her feelings of boredom. The comparison of the two men showcases her desire for more engaging relationships and her struggle with the mundane aspects of her interactions with them.