"Only common mortals like the Somervilles have good old rotten hates, dear," said her mother. "Sir Graham manages to love everybody and wouldn't know what you're talking about. Have a bun," she added. This suggests that Sir Graham is unusually tolerant and loving, unlike ordinary people who harbor resentments. Her mother's attitude emphasizes a more generous approach to relationships, contrasting with typical petty hates.

"He doesn't love the Turks," said Philippa. "He kills them." "That isn't hate," said Kate Somerville. "That's simply hoeing among one's principles to keep them healthy and neat. I'm sure he would tell you he bears them no personal grudge; and they think they're going to Paradise anyway, so it does everyone good." This reflects a pragmatic, almost detached view of conflict, where actions are driven by principles rather than personal feelings, and even violence can be justified as maintaining order or health among one's moral standards.