The statement that "suicide is selfish" is critiqued as a way for people, especially religious figures, to deflect responsibility and avoid understanding the profound struggles behind such decisions. It is often argued by those who lack the empathy that comes from personal suffering, seeking to project strength or emotional clarity while overlooking the complexities of mental anguish. Such views, rather than reflecting on the pain involved, actually serve their own needs more than the understanding of the individual suffering from suicidal thoughts.

Moreover, the assertion that suicide is an act of cowardice is challenged. It requires immense courage to confront life-ending choices, contrary to the idea that it is a cowardly escape. The author suggests that the true selfishness lies in insisting that someone endure unbearable pain for the sake of comfort for others. It reflects a lack of awareness about the depth of despair that can lead to suicide, advocating instead for a more compassionate view that acknowledges the individual's suffering rather than projecting societal judgments on their choices.