In "Bad Feminist: Essays," Roxane Gay explores the concept that people who share similar appearances or backgrounds tend to group together. This notion highlights how individuals often seek comfort and familiarity in their social circles, leading to echo chambers where diverse perspectives may be overlooked. Gay’s observations reveal the inherent human tendency to gravitate towards those we relate to on a surface level.
The quote "Who looks alike assembles" encapsulates this idea, suggesting that physical resemblance or shared identity can influence social dynamics. Gay uses this lens to critique societal structures and the diversity within feminist movements. By encouraging readers to reflect on their own associations, she advocates for broader inclusivity and understanding among various groups.