Real intimacy is portrayed as a deeply sacred experience that should not be displayed for the superficial gaze of modern society. It stands apart from the fleeting, often superficial connections fostered by contemporary culture, which can lead to a loss of genuine trust and belonging. This intimacy involves a profound connection that respects the privacy and sanctity of the soul.

According to John O'Donohue in "Anam Cara: A Book of Celtic Wisdom," true intimacy is rooted in the soul, emphasizing a need for reserve and depth. This kind of bond is not meant for public scrutiny; rather, it is an intimate connection that nurtures the individual’s inner experience and values, fostering a unique and treasured relationship.