In Roxane Gay's "Bad Feminist: Essays," she explores the complexities of women's strength and how it is often portrayed. She highlights that while society celebrates representations of powerful women, these depictions frequently ignore the sacrifices and emotional labor that underpin such strength. Without acknowledging the struggles and sources of this resilience, the narrative becomes incomplete.

Gay argues that true strength in women emerges from their experiences and the challenges they face. This resilience is called upon in critical moments, yet the emphasis on strength sometimes overshadows the vulnerabilities and costs associated with it. By examining these dynamics, Gay calls for a more nuanced understanding of female empowerment that recognizes both the triumphs and the emotional toll behind them.