Sex is one of those rare topics wherein the desire for others to keep the nitty-gritty of their experiences private is stronger even than the wish to keep mum on one's own nitty-gritty.
In her book "Bonk: The Curious Coupling of Science and Sex," Mary Roach explores the complexity of sexual experiences and the societal norms surrounding them. She emphasizes how sex is a unique subject where individuals often prioritize the privacy of others’ intimate experiences over their own. This highlights the deep-seated desire for discretion and secrecy in matters of sexuality.
Roach's observations suggest that while people may be curious about sex, they often respect the confidentiality surrounding others' experiences more than they focus on sharing their own. This cultural inclination towards secrecy reflects the intricate and sometimes taboo nature of discussing sexual matters openly, making it an area filled with both curiosity and caution.
