The protagonist reflects on the moment she was allowed to leave, suggesting that her departure was inevitable, regardless of her mother’s wishes. This highlights the tension between parental control and the autonomy of children as they grow up. Even when parents wish to protect their children, external circumstances often lead them away from home and into a different world, one that is beyond the parents' influence.

This idea is further emphasized through the notion that children, unaware of the turmoil and chaos occurring in their families, forge their own paths. The protagonist recognizes that separations can occur regardless of desires or intentions, illustrating the complex nature of family dynamics and the often uncontrollable factors that shape a child's history and future.