Teddy once told me that it's natural that we feel alone, and that's because our hearts are different from others and we don't even know how. When we're in love, as if by magic, our different hearts come together perfectly toward the same desire. Eventually, the differences return, and then comes heartache and mending, and, in between, much loneliness and fear. If love remains despite the pain of those differences, it must be guarded as rare...
Teddy shared with me that feelings of loneliness are a natural part of life, stemming from the unique hearts we each possess, often without full understanding of our differences. However, love offers a momentary harmony where these different hearts align towards a shared yearning, creating a beautiful connection. This union, while magical, can eventually lead to the reemergence of our individual differences, resulting in heartache and the need for healing.
In the midst of this emotional journey, loneliness and fear often make an appearance, reminding us of the complexities of relationships. When love manages to persevere despite the challenges posed by our differences, it becomes something truly special that deserves to be cherished and protected. Amy Tan emphasizes the rarity of such love, highlighting the importance of valuing and safeguarding it throughout its trials.
