In the narrative, the protagonist reflects on a moment where she tried to assist a struggling bluebottle but was rebuffed. This experience leads her to a profound realization about the nature of help and autonomy. It highlights the tension between the desire to help and the resistance to accepting that help, which she relates to a larger concept of divine frustration.

Through this reflection, she empathizes with God's perspective, recognizing that even when intentions are good, individuals often prioritize their own needs over accepting assistance from others. The insight reveals a deeper understanding of human behavior and the challenges faced by those who seek to provide support.