The women described in Nafisi's work challenge the constraints imposed by their families and societal norms. They defy the decisions made by their parents, particularly highlighting the lack of wise paternal figures in Austen's novels, which reflects their struggle against a society that rigidly upholds tradition. These women, portrayed as both genteel and beautiful, represent a rebellion against outdated expectations and the roles expected of them.

In their pursuit of love and meaningful companionship, these characters take significant risks, including social ostracism and the threat of poverty. Their determination to assert their choice in matters of the heart embodies a fundamental aspect of democracy—the right to choose one's path in life. Through their actions, they illustrate a profound yearning for personal agency amid societal pressures.