In "My Dream of You" by Nuala O'Faolain, the author reflects on the dual nature of silence in relationships. While quiet moments can deepen intimacy and foster connection, they can also lead to feelings of loneliness and despair. The silence shared between partners may heighten the emotional experience but can also become a burden when communication breaks down.

O'Faolain suggests that being with someone who doesn't engage in conversation can be emotionally damaging. The absence of dialogue can create a void that ultimately shrinks one's spirit, making it difficult to feel connected or understood. This contrast highlights the importance of communication in relationships, where silence should ideally enhance closeness rather than create distance.