Trappings and charm wear off, I've learned. The book of welcome says, Let people see you. They see that your upper arms are beautiful, soft and clean and warm, and then they will see this about their own, some of the time. It's called having friends, choosing each other, getting found, being fished out of the rubble. It blows you away, how this wonderful event happened-me in your life, you in mine.
In her book "Small Victories: Spotting Improbable Moments of Grace," Anne Lamott reflects on the fleeting nature of charms and superficial attractions. She emphasizes the deeper connections formed through genuine relationships, where individuals reveal their true selves and appreciate each other's beauty. This vulnerability allows friends to recognize and celebrate their own qualities, fostering a supportive environment where people uplift one another.
Lamott expresses the profound impact of these relationships, illustrating how the simple act of being present in each other's lives can lead to transformative experiences. The essence of friendship lies in being seen and accepted for who we truly are, which can be both surprising and uplifting. Through shared moments, we are 'fished out of the rubble' of our individual struggles, reminding us of the beauty and strength found in connection.
