Try to write in a directly emotional way, instead of being too subtle or oblique. Don't be afraid of your material or your past. Be afraid of wasting any more time obsessing about how you look and how people see you. Be afraid of not getting your writing done.
In her book "Bird by Bird: Some Instructions on Writing and Life," Anne Lamott emphasizes the emotional urgency of embracing one’s true self and creative voice. She challenges readers to confront their fears about appearances and the judgment of others. Instead of letting those concerns paralyze you, she urges you to focus on your writing and the passion behind it. Time is precious, and it's crucial not to squander it worrying about how you are perceived.
Lamott's message is a powerful reminder to prioritize creativity over superficial anxieties. She inspires a sense of urgency to create, urging you to channel your fears into your work rather than letting them hold you back. By confronting your past and emotions, you can unlock a deeper connection to your writing. Ultimately, it’s about living authentically and daring to share your voice with the world, rather than being held captive by insecurities.