Joyce Carol Oates reflects on the human tendency to overlook the intrinsic value of our own existence. She suggests that many of us go through life without appreciating the unique significance of our present moments. This lack of awareness leads to a disconnect from ourselves and the world around us, preventing us from recognizing the beauty and sanctity of life as it unfolds.

By failing to value ourselves, we miss the opportunity to fully engage with the present. Oates encourages a deeper appreciation for "here and now," highlighting that each moment carries its own sacredness. In recognizing this, we can cultivate gratitude, enhancing our overall experience of life. This call for mindfulness invites us to embrace our existence and appreciate the fleeting nature of time.