Roxane Gay, in her book "Bad Feminist: Essays," discusses the societal perception of women who react negatively to misogynistic jokes or humor about rape. Such responses often lead to women being labeled as overly sensitive or feminists, suggesting that they are taking a stand against sexism and harmful stereotypes. This labeling can diminish their voices and experiences, making them feel marginalized in discussions about gender and humor.

Gay highlights the issue of how the term "feminist" has evolved, frequently used as a catchall for women who express concerns over misogyny. This oversimplification can undermine the complexity of feminist thought, reducing serious discourse to mere labels and assumptions. By unpacking these dynamics, Gay encourages a more nuanced understanding of feminism and the various ways women navigate discussions about humor and misogyny in society.